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Tips for talking with kids about election results
On Election Day, many schools held their own vote. It was an
opportunity for lessons about how elections work. It was an opportunity to let
kids know whether they voted for the person who won or not, we honor the
outcomes of elections—and, we are lucky to live in a country where people can
vote to choose their leaders.
Now that the results are in, kids may have questions about the
voting process or they may express grief or anxiety if the person they voted
for didn't win. Here are a few ways to talk with them about the election
results:
- Teach them about how government works. Now is a great
time to talk about our system of checks and balances. Let them know that broad decisions or changes
are made by a team of people, not just the president.
- Calm fears. Maturity
levels vary. But generally, for young children under 10 focus on maintaining
their sense of security. If your child
is concerned or anxious about the election results, reassure them that
regardless of the results they are safe at home. And they should come to you if
they feel bullied.
- Be honest. Let them know Donald Trump will be the next president.
Beyond that, we don't know what he'll do as president. It's okay to say you don't have all the answers right now. But let your child know you can work together to find them later.
- Reiterate your values. Whether
your candidate won or lost, parents should reinforce the values you want your
children to have, such as unity or respect for people's differences and
opinions. Kids often share the values their parents express.
- Be kind. Let
them know there are wins and losses in life. Don't make fun of those who
supported the losing candidate and don't be unkind to those who won. We all
have things to learn from one another.
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